Kate Hudson and Lance Armstrong in Cannes on May 25, 2008
In Touch has a new story that claims that Kate Hudson, 29, has already told her new boyfriend, athlete Lance Armstrong, 36, that she loves him. They don't specify whether Lance said it back, but claim to have a witness who heard her say "I love you Lance" several times. They also say that Lance and Kate are talking marriage and that it's the "real thing" for both of them.
There's an inset story beneath that one that details Kate's dating history and the way that she falls head over heels for boyfriends quickly. This was more interesting to me, because I have girlfriends who jump into relationships too soon and I have to admit to being foolish in love at times too:
MOVING IN AFTER 4 DAYS [EX HUSBAND CHRIS ROBINSON]
Days after their first date in May 2000, Kate moved in with Chris Robinson. "We knew we were in love after four days," she says. They wed seven months later.
DATING AFTER 1 WEEK [OWEN WILSON]
One week after her separation from Chris was confirmed, rumors flew that Kate was already dating her You, Me and Dupree co-star Owen Wilson
VACATIONING AFTER 2 WEEKS [DAX SHEPHARD]
Two weeks after she was first seen with comedian Dax Shepard, Kate invited him to take a vacation with her to Canada to meet her entire extended family.
MEETING KIDS AFTER 1 DATE [LANCE ARMSTRONG]
Lance and Kate were first spotted at a Kid Rock concert after-party in NYC on May 15. She flew with him to Austin, TX, the next day and met his children.
[From In Touch, print edition, July 7, 2008]
The accompanying article warns that the danger with falling in love too quickly is that you can just as easily sour on a person and ditch the relationship the minute you get a taste of reality. It also can be hard on your kids if you're a single mom and bring too many men into their lives. In Touch quotes "relationship expert" Dr. Gilda Carle who says "Her son gets attached to her various partners, but when it's over, Ryder may become disappointed and confused."
That could be true, but we don't know how many men she's dated who have played a significant role in his life. There are three that I can think of since she split with her husband. Certainly you should be careful not to bring a lot of men around or make them seem like replacement daddies, but kids are resilient and I see Kate as dating until she finds the right man, not sleeping around.
It does sound like Kate moves too fast, but it seems more like she falls quickly and just goes with it. In Touch includes a quote she gave to Cosmopolitan in 2005, when she was still married, to suggest that she may be fickle in relationships. She said "If for some reason it's over, why would you spend five years of your life trying to make it work when you can spend those five years being friends and finding someone else?" She probably already knew her marriage was over at that point, and it's possible she didn't move on to Wilson that quickly after it ended, and just waited to announce her separation.
If anything Kate sounds guilty of the same thing a lot of do when we find a great new man - we think he's the one and start to revolve our lives around him. It's better to step back a little, get your head together, and focus on your friends and interests for a while so that you can make a better decision about who you want to commit to - for now.
Kate Hudson and Lance Armstrong are shown in Cannes on May 25, 2008, thanks to Splash.
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